好消息和坏消息| Good news and bad news

今天一早醒来心里记挂着母亲挚友老公的病情，马上发微信问母亲是否有进展了？结果，母亲告诉我，这位世伯已经在昨晚去世了... 嫂子和一些佛友准备明天去见他最后一面和送别。

原本今天醒来，就感觉头像是在云里，有点闷闷的感觉。头脑很不清醒，似乎久别的眩晕症状要出现的苗头，心里原本就有点紧张；结果听到这消息更是不舒服。见到我这样，老公体贴地帮我把脏衣服拿去洗了，同时把厨房也整理了一下，并冲泡一杯咖啡给我，让我不要着急，慢慢来。

吃完早餐没有多久，老公又喊我过去。原来他刚收到他母亲的短信，告诉他他的一位姨丈刚刚去世！老公和这位姨丈仅见过两面，对他并不了解，并不觉得伤心。他更关心的是他自己母亲的感受，毕竟她才刚失去一位妹妹，现在又失去一位妹夫。婆婆的一生有太多的故事。

人生真是无常，真的不知道什么时候就有噩耗传来。人的身体太脆弱，有太多的秘密连最新的医学都无法攻克；就比如眩晕症，至今都找不到眩晕的真正原因和有效治疗。全球有多少人每天都忍受着眩晕的痛苦，没有质量地生活着。 更不要说那些忍受更痛苦病痛的人们。

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好消息是我之前的直接老板今天告诉我，她刚接受了一份新工作，并将在11／30 正式上班！自从她离开公司，已经8 个月了。她离开的时候，正是我们开始在家办公和lockdown 的时候。我们都没有机会跟她当面道别。她现在找到了一份她自己一直以来都想要做的工作。这是个教育行业。和我们现在的这个行业完全没有关系。我的这位前老板是位非常好的人，她的这种人品特质将让她在这个新的行业里有很不错的发展。真心为她感到高兴。

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人的一生都是在好，坏消息和各种琐碎事件中前行。好消息让人振奋，坏消息打击情绪。可是，不管怎样，除非生命停息，生活总是要继续。保持乐观积极的态度总是比消极更有成绩和快乐。坏消息也许在短时间内让人沮丧和颓废，但是，经历过坏消息又可以走出并转为正能量的，最后都是成长和胜利。

谁都希望可以多些好消息少些坏消息，但是，这也只是wishful thinking。该来的还是会来的，牢记那句：“不经历风雨，哪见彩虹？” 希望一切的不顺，最后都可以成为我们继续前行的动力，它铸造了我们的现在，也将让我们成为更好的自己!

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Today's quite a day, full of good news and bad news. Good news is my ex-boss has just accepted an offer and will start the new role by end of Nov. This is a new territory for her but is always what she wants to do, so happy for her! It's also a such nice weather, haven't seen her in person since she left the company back in March, would love to have a coffee date with her and congratulate her in person.

Bad news are couple people dies last night. None of them I know of in person. One is my mom's friend's husband whom fell off from high ladder and was hospitalized couple days ago. The other one is one of my mother in law's sister's husband. Wish them rest in peace...

Didn't feel quite myself this morning since I woke up. I felt I dragged myself out from some type of dreams, it made me very fatigue and kinda dizzy. I had cloudy head and felt the long feeling of vertigo is coming back. That was a horrible experience. I had very extreme vertigo for a whole week! I was terrifying.

There are so many secret codes of human body that even scientists can't crack. Life is full of good and bad news. It's all what we have experienced and the decisions we made shape our today. Negativity tries to defeat and makes us miserable. Unless life stops, we have a choice to make. If we choose happiness over negativity, we will become stronger and be a better self. It's not easy, but the choice defines our present and future. What's your choice?